All of us fall in love at some point in our lives. Our heart starts singing mellifluously for someone special, and we believe that this is the person whom God has chosen just for us. Only for us. It is our assumption. Sometimes, this assumption is correct, when someone’s love beautifully blossoms into marriage. But, mostly, it ends up in a painful heartbreak. And then, we curse ourselves, we curse our partner, and yes, we curse the God too.
A supportive and loving girlfriend plays a great role in one’s life. There is nothing more beautiful in this world to be loved. Loving someone is the most beautiful feeling and loved by a right person is a blessing.
In this article, we give you 8 signs you should look for in your partner, which mean she’s the one for you, for life.
#1. She is your best friend
Marrying your best friend can prove to be one of the best decisions of your life. If she is your best friend, then she knows everything about you. By everything, we literally mean everything. She knows what you like, what you dislike, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, how to make you smile, what to expect from you, and what not to expect from you. Moreover, she knows your family too. Nothing can be better than marrying your best friend.
#2. She respects you
Giving respect is the most important and most basic need of a relationship. A girlfriend who would love you will never share your secrets with others. She would respect your privacy and she will understand the fact that the things you both talk with each other should be considered in between you two. No third person would never be allowed to interfere in your personal life. It’s not only her duty to respect you but you should prioritize her and respect her in the same way.
#3. You enjoy your life with her
Life is a journey, with loads of ups and downs. Living a life is all about finding happiness in every small thing. If you can share happiness and sorrows with her, if you can discuss your problems and goals with her, if you can communicate your feelings to her, and if you can smile and laugh together, your bonding will forever remain strong.
#4. When she doesn’t demand you to change
A girlfriend is like a support system for a boy. She’s always there by his side in thick and thin. Sometimes a girl demands for change in behavior with the change in situations that become quite difficult for a guy to accept. For example, if a girl is in low mood state, she would demand you to be more polite and loving towards her. Couples have most of their conflict in these type of situation. If your girlfriend accepts you as who you are, always remember that you have a great person in your life and you should stick to her, and never let her go.
#5. She supports you and believes in your goals
They say, there is a woman behind every successful man. Some people have also accepted that their fortune changed for good, after getting married. Fortune or luck never change automatically. What matters is the effect of the person who trusts your goal, who supports you, motivates you, and believes in you. If your girlfriend believes in your goals, and is always there to support you, she is the best person to be your soulmate.
#6. When she is comfortable enough to discuss s*x with you
S*x is believed to be an essential part in a relationship. It makes your relationship stronger. If a girlfriend is comfortable enough and you guys have no communication gap, she is truly a loyal partner. Boys really like those girls who love to talk about s*x and s*xual matters. Sometimes, there are some s*xual matters that need to be solved as soon as possible. Because s*xual issues are the reason of conflict in a relationship, so it should be solved quickly. If a girlfriend is cool enough, she will definitely discuss those matters and solve the problems. That also shows your concern about your relationship!
#7. When you feel relaxed talking to her
A day of a person is full of ups and downs. He has to go through his office work, earns money for his wife and children and coming back home with stress. In this situation, A girl plays a very supportive role. He need a person you would listen to him and understand him. When you are feeling low and you are going through some tensions in your life. And then you talk and discuss all the matters with her. And you immediately feel light and better. You should feel lucky enough, that you are blessed to have such an amazing life partner. A man need a supportive and most of all, a real girl who would be beside him, no matter what. This type of girl is quite difficult to find. If you have one in your life, never let her feel down.
#8. She is beautiful (Inside and Out)
By ‘beautiful’, we don’t just mean the physical appearance and the outer-beauty. Yes, pragmatically, the looks matter too, to have some sort of physical attraction towards the woman you love. But, to maintain a healthy and strong bonding, you should not ignore her inner qualities. If she is honest, trustworthy, polite, humble, thankful, and responsible, then she is certainly a good choice for you. It doesn’t matter if she is not the most (physically) beautiful person in the world. All that matters is, if you think she is beautiful to you. Moreover, her inner-beauty will remain long after the physical beauty is no more.