A wealthy widow who claims to have had illicit affairs with more than 100 married men in just ten years claims cheating can be good for marriage adding: ‘I’m the perfect solution.’
Financial consultant Gweneth Lee, 47, says half of the wives of the men she dates know about their affairs but turn a blind eye because they have gone off sex and want their husbands to be happy.
The ex-model, of Chelsea, West London, says she feels no guilt over her relationships because she says many of the couples would split up if the men didn’t have her an outlet, and the heartache of divorce would be far worse for their families.
I know a lot of people will condemn what I do but I really don’t have any regrets because I honestly believe that I help to keep a lot of couples together. So many marriages in the UK are in crisis, particular couples in middle age with children.
They have been together for ten or 15 years and they have very busy and stressful lives combining careers with the care of their kids.
For many women in particular sex just shuts down and disappears from their weekly routine.
That is fine for the women who find fulfillment through their friends and their children.
But that leaves a lot of men craving sex and excitement – they don’t want to leave their wives but they do want a release from all that pent-up frustration.
I am the perfect solution for them. We can go out and have fun but they know with absolute certainty that I am not going to turn up on their doorstep and rat on them to their wives or demand that they divorce.
I just want to have some fun and some great day, which is all the men want from me, too.
Sleeping with someone new can be good for a marriage. It takes the pressure off many wives whose libidos have died and keeps the man happy. Clearly, the reverse can be true, too, when the man goes off mood. Lots of women are having affair while their husbands stay faithful.
She has met most of the men through IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website married people.
And while some of her affairs have consisted of just a few dates, other filings have lasted for years.
Gweneth’s body count is already over 100, and she jets all over the world meeting middle-aged lovers from the site, often with two or three on the go at the same time.
The sophisticated mistress said:
I am happy to go exclusive if the relationship is special to me.
But most of the time I am a free agent and I see more than one man at the same time. They don’t mind – as long as I am free when they need me.
She first signed up for Illicit Encounters ten years ago, after the death of her husband Robert, an oil executive.
And since then, her lovers have included city financiers, pharmaceutical tycoons, and top-notch surgeons.
llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said Gweneth was typical of the women on the site.
IllicitEncounters.com provides an outlet for men and women who would have an affair whether we were there or not.
In coming to us, they can be assured of meeting a like-minded partner seeking some added excitement in their life who doesn’t want to upset things at home.
Of course, there’s another side to all this.
We recently introduced you to the women who let their partners have affairs… but did any of them regret it?
And we also revealed which day of the year affairs are most likely to happen on.